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Effort Quote by Brené Brown

“When we experience something that is difficult and requires significant time and effort, we are quick to think, This is supposed to be easy; it’s not worth the effort, or, This should be easier: it’s only hard and slow because I’m not good at it. Hopeful self-talk sounds more like, This is tough…” quote by Brené Brown
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““When we experience something that is difficult and requires significant time and effort, we are quick to think, This is supposed to be easy; it’s not worth the effort, or, This should be easier: it’s only hard and slow because I’m not good at it. Hopeful self-talk sounds more like, This is tough, but I can do it.””

Brené Brown

About This Quote

Source Book: Dare to Lead, 2018

When challenges feel overwhelming, reframing self‑talk from judgment to encouragement improves resilience.

In simple terms: Talk to yourself kindly during tough tasks.

Key Takeaway

Replace self‑criticism with supportive language.

Themes

resilience mindset growth

Mood

hopeful determined

Type

motivational inspirational

When to use this quote

  • learning new skill
  • career change
  • physical training
  • personal projects

Key Concepts

self‑talk cognitive reframing motivation

Questions to Reflect On

  • What negative thought patterns do you notice?
  • How can you reinforce encouraging dialogue?
A Different Perspective

Positive self‑talk may not erase external obstacles.

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