Feedback Quote by Brené Brown
““In fact, all of us are very susceptible to having our humiliating experiences turn to shame, especially when the person who is putting us down is someone with whom we have a valued relationship or someone whom we perceive to have more power than we do...””
About This Quote
Source Book: Daring Greatly by Brené Brown, 2012
People feel deeper shame when criticism comes from someone they respect or view as powerful, because the hurt threatens valued relationships and perceived status.
In simple terms: Shame hurts more from respected people.
Key Takeaway
Recognize and address power dynamics in feedback.
Themes
shame
relationships
power
vulnerability
Mood
reflective
empathetic
Type
advice
psychological
relationship
When to use this quote
- workplace feedback
- family conflict
- mentor criticism
- friendship disagreements
Key Concepts
psychology
social dynamics
self‑esteem
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you respond when respected people criticize you?
- What steps can you take to protect your self‑worth?
A Different Perspective
Shame can also arise from self‑judgment, not just external sources.
