Criticism Quote by Brené Brown
““I only accept and pay attention to feedback from people who are also in the arena. If you're occasionally getting your butt kicked as you respond, and if you're also figuring out how to stay open to feedback without getting pummeled by insults, I'm more likely to pay attention to your thought about my work. If, on the other hand, you're not helping, contributing, or wrestling with your own gremlins, I'm not at all interested in your commentary.””
About This Quote
Source Interview: The Power of Vulnerability, 2018
Feedback is valuable only when it comes from peers actively engaged in the same challenges, not from detached observers.
In simple terms: Only feedback from fellow participants matters.
Seek input from those sharing your struggles.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- team meetings
- coaching sessions
- creative workshops
- online forums
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Who can you trust for honest feedback?
- How do you handle criticism from outsiders?
Critics may still offer useful perspectives despite not being in the arena.