Efficiency Quote by Augusten Burroughs
“It was unnerving, the way she could go from cool efficiency to sarcastic to sweet within the space of thirty seconds. I found it very manipulative and controlling. It put the other person constantly on-guard. And it was extremely intimidating because you never knew when she was going to snap. I made a mental note to refine these skills within myself.”
About This Quote
Source Memoir: Running with Scissors, 2002
Rapid mood shifts can be manipulative, keeping others on edge and feeling unsafe.
In simple terms: Quick mood changes can intimidate.
Key Takeaway
Stay aware of emotional dynamics.
Themes
psychology
manipulation
trust
Mood
cautious
reflective
Type
analytical
advice
When to use this quote
- relationship building
- conflict resolution
- leadership
- personal boundaries
Key Concepts
Emotional intelligence
control
interpersonal dynamics
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you respond when someone’s mood changes fast?
- What boundaries help protect you from manipulation?
A Different Perspective
Not all rapid shifts are harmful; context matters.
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