Friendship Quote by Tremper Longman III
““1–2. Job speaks. At the conclusion of the epilogue, we heard that Job sat in silence with his three friends for seven days. The friends responded with silence, demonstrating their empathy toward their suffering friend. It is significant and often forgotten in popular reading that Job was the one who broke the silence. The friends, who become aggressive and angry toward Job in the process of the ensuing debate, did not begin the fight. True, Job does not attack them; he attacks his “day.” The day, as we will learn in the ensuing complaint, is the day of his birth.[177] He curses that day as a dark and evil day, a day that allowed for his present suffering. By so cursing his day, he is implicitly criticizing God, a criticism that grows increasingly explicit as the lament develops.””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Book of Job (Biblical Text)
Job expresses deep anguish by blaming the day of his birth, reflecting a profound struggle with suffering and divine justice.
In simple terms: Job blames his birth day for his suffering.
Recognize and process pain without blaming others.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal loss
- grief counseling
- theological study
- spiritual reflection
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How does blaming circumstances affect healing?
- Can lament lead to deeper understanding of faith?
Blaming the day may overlook personal responsibility and can alienate supportive relationships.