Business Quote by Thomas Paine
““There are stages in the business of serious life in which to assume is cruel, but to deceive is to destroy; and it is of little consequence, in the conclusion, whether men deceive themselves, or submit, by a kind of mutual consent, to the impositions of each other.””
About This Quote
Source Essay: The Rights of Man, 1791
Deception in life can be destructive, while assuming (perhaps hopeful) can be cruel; ultimately, self‑deception or mutual consent to falsehoods matter little in the end.
In simple terms: Deception harms more than hopeful assumptions.
Beware self‑deception and mutual falsehoods.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal decision‑making
- political discourse
- relationship dynamics
- self‑reflection
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you accept comforting lies?
- How do you confront self‑deception?
Even harmless assumptions can lead to harmful outcomes if unchecked.