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Absence Quote by Blaise Pascal

“Human life is thus only a perpetual illusion; men deceive and flatter each other. No one speaks of us in our presence as he does of us in our absence. Human society is founded on mutual deceit; few friendships would endure if each knew what his friend said of him in his absence, although he then…” quote by Blaise Pascal
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“Human life is thus only a perpetual illusion; men deceive and flatter each other. No one speaks of us in our presence as he does of us in our absence. Human society is founded on mutual deceit; few friendships would endure if each knew what his friend said of him in his absence, although he then spoke in sincerity and without passion.”

Blaise Pascal

About This Quote

Source Philosophical Treatise: Pensées, Blaise Pascal, 1670

Human interactions are built on mutual deception; true friendship would falter if people knew each other's private judgments.

In simple terms: People lie about each other behind backs.

Key Takeaway

Seek honesty in relationships.

Themes

philosophy human nature trust

Mood

thoughtful critical

Type

philosophical psychological

When to use this quote

  • friendship
  • workplace dynamics
  • political discourse

Key Concepts

deception social psychology

Questions to Reflect On

  • Can true honesty coexist with social harmony?
  • How does secrecy affect trust?
A Different Perspective

Complete honesty may cause conflict or hurt.

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