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Feminism Quote by Sheryl Sandberg

“As women must be more empowered at work, men must be more empowered at home. I have seen so many women inadvertently discourage their husbands from doing their share by being too controlling or critical. Social scientists call this "maternal gatekeeping" which is a fancy term for "Ohmigod, that's…” quote by Sheryl Sandberg
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““As women must be more empowered at work, men must be more empowered at home. I have seen so many women inadvertently discourage their husbands from doing their share by being too controlling or critical. Social scientists call this "maternal gatekeeping" which is a fancy term for "Ohmigod, that's not the way you do it! Just move aside and let me!"...Anyone who wants her mate to be a true partner must treat him as an equal--and equally capable partner. And if that's note reason enough, bear in mind that a study found that wives who engage in gatekeeping behaviors do five more hours of family work per week than wives who take a more collaborative approach. Another common and counterproductive dynamic occurs when women assign or suggest taks to their partners. She is delegating, and that's a step in the right direction. But sharing responsibility should mean sharing responsibility. Each partner needs to be in charge of specific activities or it becomes too easy for one to feel like he's doing a favor instead of doing his part.””

Sheryl Sandberg

About This Quote

Gender dynamics at home and work require mutual empowerment; women’s controlling behavior can hinder partnership, while collaborative sharing improves family workload balance.

In simple terms: Both partners need equal respect and shared duties.

Key Takeaway

Promote equal partnership.

Themes

gender family workplace equality

Mood

thoughtful encouraging

Type

relationship social

When to use this quote

  • marriage counseling
  • work‑life balance programs
  • organizational training

Key Concepts

maternal gatekeeping collaboration role negotiation

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can couples foster true equality?
  • What policies support shared domestic responsibilities?
A Different Perspective

Overemphasis on one partner can create resentment.

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