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Choices Quote by Shannon L. Alder

“When you’re in love with two people, always choose the second. The fact that you are constantly thinking of the second person makes it obvious that the first will never fulfill you, unless the second person did not fulfill you either. At this point, you have to choose the third person because God…” quote by Shannon L. Alder
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““When you’re in love with two people, always choose the second. The fact that you are constantly thinking of the second person makes it obvious that the first will never fulfill you, unless the second person did not fulfill you either. At this point, you have to choose the third person because God is getting a little tired of your inattention and indecisiveness, and is planning on sending a fourth person into your life just to slap you around with the bible for not entering the promised land.””

Shannon L. Alder

About This Quote

The passage satirically advises that when indecisive in love, one should keep moving to new partners, suggesting divine frustration and eventual moral correction.

In simple terms: Indecision in love leads to endless searching; divine patience runs out.

Key Takeaway

Seek clarity and commitment rather than endless options.

Themes

love indecision spiritual guidance humor relationship dynamics

Mood

wry thoughtful humorous

Type

relationship spiritual philosophical

When to use this quote

  • dating
  • self‑reflection
  • spiritual counseling

Key Concepts

commitment faith personal growth

Practical Applications

  • faith
  • personal responsibility

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does indecision affect personal growth?
  • What role does spirituality play in relationship choices?
A Different Perspective

The advice mocks endless searching and implies moral consequences.

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