“Perspective is as simple as answering this question: If I had 5 months to live would I experience this problem differently?” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“No boundary or barrier surrounds the heart of a person that loves their self and others.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Sensitive people either love deeply or they regret deeply. There really is no middle ground because they live in passionate extremes.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“The only real battle in life is between hanging on and letting go.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Intelligence is not expecting people to understand what your intent is; it is anticipating how it will be perceived.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Hide yourself in God, so when a man wants to find you he will have to go there first.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Chasing a person doesn’t give you value or build values in you. You earn your value by chasing morality and practicing dignity.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Love is proved the moment you let go of someone because they need you to.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Every woman that finally figured out her worth, has picked up her suitcases of pride and boarded a flight to freedom, which… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“The true definition of mental illness is when the majority of your time is spent in the past or future, but rarely… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Chasing a man is not winning. The only thing you win is the loss of your dignity. Confidence is knowing your value,… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“In the end, a lack of compatibility is what ruins relationships. You can't force someone to be an eagle when they are… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“You can be bit in the leg by a rattlesnake and seek help to heal your wound, or you can run after… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Your heart’s strength is measured by how hard it holds on. Your self worth and faith is measured by finally letting go.… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“If you spend your time hoping someone will suffer the consequences for what they did to your heart, then you're allowing them… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“The secret to life is to have no fear. When you can let go of what others think about you, how something… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“It is a strange thing that the human species can only go three days without water and three weeks without food, before… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“A competitive and insecure woman will tell you that “true love” is never giving up on someone you're in love with. A… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“I don't understand women that call themselves a "bitch". It doesn't empower a woman. Rather, it reveals to everyone that you were… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Every person with ADHD already knows that destination addiction is part of their disorder. However, if it doesn’t have a positive outlet,… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“If you could do one thing to improve yourself today, it would be this: Rid yourself of bias. If you can do… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Some people can’t be in your life because they don’t have the power to help you improve it. That doesn’t mean you… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“It is so simple, yet so hard for some people to do. If you want someone out of your life then you… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“The clock ticks; the taunting rhythm serving as a reminder that forward is the only way we can go. The mechanical heartbeat… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“You will never be able to end any battle if the people involved are unable to see their own hypocrisy, or how… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Forget what hurt you in the past, but never forget what it taught you. However, if it taught you to hold onto… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“It is not lies or a lack of loyalty that ends a relationship. It is the agonizing truth that one person feels… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“The more you talk about it, rehash it, rethink it, cross analyze it, debate it, respond to it, get paranoid about it,… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“The source to low self-esteem is the lack of control you feel you have in your life. If you spend your life… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“If you want to know if someone was meant to be in your future, then remove all the worldly things about them… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“If you don't make a conscious effort to visualize, who you are and what you want to become in life, then you… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Dear Child, Sometimes on your travel through hell, you meet people that think they are in heaven because of their cleverness and… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“When you think this pain is all you deserve, you are right. You are the only one that can decide how long… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Worry does not keep it from raining tomorrow, but it does keep it from being sunny today.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“You can’t selectively numb your anger, any more than you can turn off all lights in a room, and still expect to… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“The best don’t stick around when you treat them poorly, only the desperate do.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“God’s warriors don’t avoid conflict. They fight through it with communication and a positive outlook.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Nothing changes until people decide to do the things they must, in order to bring about peace.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Every relationship that has hit a crossroads has asked, “What is it that you want from me?” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Dignity will only happen when you realize that having someone in your life doesn’t validate your worth.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Don’t waste your time trying to explain yourself to people that are committed to misunderstanding you. Instead, commit your time to explaining who they… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“God has a way of picking a “nobody” and turning their world upside down, in order to create a “somebody” that will remove the… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Mental illness is not something you misunderstand in this era. Get educated because bias is no different than racism.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“It takes a female to have a baby, It takes a woman to raise a child, It takes a mother to raise them correctly,… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“God is going to send you someone that will rescue you. Then one day you will rescue them in return and together your story… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“You can be bit in the leg by a rattlesnake and seek help to heal your wound, or you can run after it and… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“It is not the self respect and pride that you take with you, but the heritage you leave behind to your children that matters.… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“The art of being wise is the art of knowing that solutions don’t come from individuals, but rather experiences.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“If you have feelings for someone, let them know. It doesn’t matter if they can be in your life or not. Maybe, it is… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“After every storm, there is a rainbow. If you have eyes, you will find it. If you have wisdom, you will create it. If… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Don’t ever feel bad that someone couldn’t give you all of their heart. Be grateful that you can take the least complicated part of… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“I don't know why anyone would be scared of a homeless person. The truly scary people are all the murder mystery writers. They spend… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
