“Anyone can find the dirt on someone, but very few can wipe it from their own shoes.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“If you want to be an honorable man, then be what you pretend to be.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“I am not afraid to die; I am only afraid of saying goodbye to you forever.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Worry does not keep it from raining tomorrow, but it does keep it from being sunny today.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Compassion is not something you have; it is something you share.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“In a narcissist's world you are not their one and only. You are an extension of that person and last place in… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Tough love and brutal truth from strangers are far more valuable than Band-Aids and half-truths from invested friends, who don’t want to… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Insanity is everyone expecting you not to fall apart when you find out everything you believed in was a lie.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“When you’re given the gift of truth, you spend a lot of time trying to tone it down because it is already… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Never give a person a piece of your mind when all you really wanted to do was give them a piece of… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Spiritual pain is when you can’t stand another moment not knowing the real truth, and when you finally do know you can’t… — Shannon l. Alder Copy Share Image
“Do you really think all angels are sweet and gentle? You must have forgot that the front lines of the War in… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“When people don't tell you the truth what they really are saying is they don't value you or their relationship with you… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Accomplishments don’t erase shame, hatred, cruelty, silence, ignorance, discrimination, low self-esteem or immorality. It covers it up, with a creative version of… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Try not to be a man or woman of success, but rather a man or woman of inspiration. If you’re successful, they… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Two people with mental issues in a relationship does not work. It's like sitting in a boat and neither one has an… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
You will never find the real truth among people that are insecure or have egos to protect. Truth over time becomes either… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Your strength will be found when you stop struggling with yourself, instead of thinking everyone is a struggle worth overcoming. Every obstacle… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Every person with ADHD already knows that destination addiction is part of their disorder. However, if it doesn’t have a positive outlet,… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“The only people that can't handle the truth are those that suffer so much anxiety that they will live in denial, in… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“If they keep coming back to you, it isn't love. It is because you made yourself and easy option. The moment the… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“I will never be someone's last choice, second option, narcissistic supply, doormat, ego booster, sidekick, secret, last time or after thought. I… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“If you have feelings for someone, let them know. It doesn’t matter if they can be in your life or not. Maybe,… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“You have two choices in life when it comes to truthful observations by others that anger you: You can be ashamed and… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“When words don’t add up in love, it is because of six possible reasons: 1. They are afraid to tell you the… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Don't waste your time trying to provide people with proof of deceit, in order to keep their love, win their love or… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“It is not lies or a lack of loyalty that ends a relationship. It is the agonizing truth that one person feels… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“There are no guarantees with finally being honest and coming clean with people. Sometimes you don’t win love back. Sometimes you lose… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Sometimes you can’t figure out the truth because you’re asking people that are emotionally or socially invested in you to be brutally… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Naive people tend to generalize people as—-good, bad, kind, or evil based on their actions. However, even the smartest person in the… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Truth changes with the season of our emotions. It is the shadow that moves with the phases of our inner sun. When… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Dear Child, Sometimes on your travel through hell, you meet people that think they are in heaven because of their cleverness and… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“I think timing is better left up to God to decide then religious leaders. I once met a man that brought his… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Not long ago, I learned that if I let other people tell me how God was supposed to work in my life… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Never give up and never give in. The truth always finds a way to be told.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“We were meant to rescue each other, not cut down the forest to rescue one.” — shannon l. alder Copy Share Image
“No boundary or barrier surrounds the heart of a person that loves their self and others.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Don’t waste your time trying to explain yourself to people that are committed to misunderstanding you. Instead, commit your time to explaining who they… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“God has a way of picking a “nobody” and turning their world upside down, in order to create a “somebody” that will remove the… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Mental illness is not something you misunderstand in this era. Get educated because bias is no different than racism.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“It takes a female to have a baby, It takes a woman to raise a child, It takes a mother to raise them correctly,… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“God is going to send you someone that will rescue you. Then one day you will rescue them in return and together your story… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“You can be bit in the leg by a rattlesnake and seek help to heal your wound, or you can run after it and… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“It is not the self respect and pride that you take with you, but the heritage you leave behind to your children that matters.… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“The art of being wise is the art of knowing that solutions don’t come from individuals, but rather experiences.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“If you have feelings for someone, let them know. It doesn’t matter if they can be in your life or not. Maybe, it is… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“After every storm, there is a rainbow. If you have eyes, you will find it. If you have wisdom, you will create it. If… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Don’t ever feel bad that someone couldn’t give you all of their heart. Be grateful that you can take the least complicated part of… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“I don't know why anyone would be scared of a homeless person. The truly scary people are all the murder mystery writers. They spend… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image