“Religious guilt will never grow the kind of love you want in someone.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“The only person that deserves a special place in your life is someone that never made you feel like you were an… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“People's behaviors are messages, not a diagnosis because I can no longer discern the world's version of insanity.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Hypocrisy /hi pakrise/ noun 1. The moment you tell someone it is not important to be right, in order to look right… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Intelligence is not expecting people to understand what your intent is; it is anticipating how it will be perceived.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Never stand in the way of letting God use people’s actions, in order to solve a greater issue in the world.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“If you choose to be fearless, then be fearlessly authentic not an imitation of someone you envy.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
Being kind to someone, only to look kind to others, defeats the purpose of being kind. — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“When people don't tell you the truth what they really are saying is they don't value you or their relationship with you… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Chasing a man is not winning. The only thing you win is the loss of your dignity. Confidence is knowing your value,… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Relationships with negative people are simply tedious encounters with porcupines. You don’t have the remote knowledge how to be close to them… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“When you don’t have honesty in love then there is no communication. Honesty is improvisation of the heart; anything less is a… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“You can be bit in the leg by a rattlesnake and seek help to heal your wound, or you can run after… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“The number of chances you give someone doesn't tell the world how loving you are without telling them how desperate you are… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“You can't always expect people to apply your wisdom when they didn't use wisdom before they found themselves knee deep in their… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Your dignity can be mocked, abused, compromised, toyed with, lowered and even badmouthed, but it can never be taken from you. You… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“There is nothing more entertaining then leaving someone speechless. Yet, there is nothing sadder than realizing that person was incapable of retaining… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Your body is a temple, not a daily dumping ground for another person’s pain, anger, betrayal, judgment, hypocrisy, denial, games, jealousy or… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“As much as we don’t want to except it, there is a time limit to the best life God tries to offer… — shannon l. alder Copy Share Image
“If it were true love, he would never make you sacrifice your dignity to be with him. He would respect you and… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“When you let go of control and commit yourself to happiness, it is so easy to offer compassion and forgiveness. This propels… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Often people that tell others they are "extremely polite" when the situation calls for tact and bluntness are not actually polite people.… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“When words don’t add up in love, it is because of six possible reasons: 1. They are afraid to tell you the… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Often people that say they “don’t care” actually do. The moment they discuss you with their friends and family, compete with you,… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Empowering Women 101: If a normal man wants you he will let you know. You won't have to guess. He will move… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“God told us to love everyone. However, when you don’t like someone then you need to walk away and focus not on… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Long standing hatred between a man and a woman is just unspoken attraction that has bruised egos.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Staying for your children is noble. However, staying with someone that teaches your children that "selective" evilness is okay is mental illness.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“victim noun \ˈvik-təm\ 1. The moment you tell everyone you have a mental disorder, in order to excuse your behavior.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Words don’t have the power to hurt you, unless that person meant more to you than you are willing to confess.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Insanity is everyone expecting you not to fall apart when you find out everything you believed in was a lie.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Cruel people offer pity when they no longer feel threatened. However, kind people offer compassion and understanding regardless.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“It is not the hand that rocks the cradle that rules the world; it is the woman that holds the keys to… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Every game is winnable if you change your mind about what the prize should be and your perspective about the players at… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Insecure people only eclipse your sun because they’re jealous of your daylight and tired of their dark, starless nights.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“People that have been consistently hurt by others in life will only see the one time you hurt them and be blinded… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“The only people you have to look out for in life are the people that don't care about anything or anyone. These… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Don’t waste your time trying to explain yourself to people that are committed to misunderstanding you. Instead, commit your time to explaining who they… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“God has a way of picking a “nobody” and turning their world upside down, in order to create a “somebody” that will remove the… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Mental illness is not something you misunderstand in this era. Get educated because bias is no different than racism.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“It takes a female to have a baby, It takes a woman to raise a child, It takes a mother to raise them correctly,… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“God is going to send you someone that will rescue you. Then one day you will rescue them in return and together your story… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“You can be bit in the leg by a rattlesnake and seek help to heal your wound, or you can run after it and… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“It is not the self respect and pride that you take with you, but the heritage you leave behind to your children that matters.… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“The art of being wise is the art of knowing that solutions don’t come from individuals, but rather experiences.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“If you have feelings for someone, let them know. It doesn’t matter if they can be in your life or not. Maybe, it is… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“After every storm, there is a rainbow. If you have eyes, you will find it. If you have wisdom, you will create it. If… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Don’t ever feel bad that someone couldn’t give you all of their heart. Be grateful that you can take the least complicated part of… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“I don't know why anyone would be scared of a homeless person. The truly scary people are all the murder mystery writers. They spend… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
