“The only real battle in life is between hanging on and letting go.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“The only real conflict you will ever have in your life won’t be with others, but with yourself.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“God built lighthouses to see people through storms. Then he built storms to remind people to find lighthouses.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Humility is the only thing that can restore a relationship, when respect has been lost.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Do not conform to seek the seekers, but leave the leavers. Wisdom comes from facing what you do not yet understand.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Chasing a person doesn’t give you value or build values in you. You earn your value by chasing morality and practicing dignity.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“It is not until you change your identity to match your life blueprint that you will understand why everything in the past… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“If you have to convince someone to stay with you then they have already left.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“We are all a little schizophrenic. Each of us has three different people living inside us every day—who you were, who you… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“True confidence is not about what you take from someone to restore yourself, but what you give back to your critics because… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Relationships with negative people are simply tedious encounters with porcupines. You don’t have the remote knowledge how to be close to them… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“God is up to something, but you will never know unless you figure out the difference between who is the messenger carrying… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“You can't live in your mind and expect those dreams to become real, without the work. Reality requires actions that might feel… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Empowered Women 101: The moment you ignore bad behavior, in order to win a person's affection you have not won anything, but… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“You cannot become a peacemaker without communication. Silence is a passive aggressive grenade thrown by insecure people that want war, but they… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“You don’t need to wait for God to show up, in order to be rescued from your bad situation. God has been… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Expectations are nothing more than the rules we set, in order to maintain our ego and self esteem. What we seek from… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“God has a plan and guess what? The plan is to stop waiting for him to do everything for you. The person… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“ Six Beliefs That Set the Course of Your Life 1. If you don’t believe the impossible can happen, then you are… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Your love life is insignificant when it comes to raising your children to be respectable human beings. The moment you see them… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“When you let go of control and commit yourself to happiness, it is so easy to offer compassion and forgiveness. This propels… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“More often than not, people who are obsessed with their desires and feelings are generally unhappier in life vs. people that refocus… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“The more you talk about it, rehash it, rethink it, cross analyze it, debate it, respond to it, get paranoid about it,… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Unrequited love is the only emotion that allows sane people to taste the “life sentence” of someone with bipolar disorder. The longer… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“I think timing is better left up to God to decide then religious leaders. I once met a man that brought his… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“So many people think that they are not gifted because they don’t have an obvious talent that people can recognize because it… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“People that hold onto hate for so long do so because they want to avoid dealing with their pain. They falsely believe… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“The Warrior Woman Code: A confident woman doesn't beg a man to stay, cry if they don't or need to tear down… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“God doesn't call us to mediocrity. He calls us to a greater standard that doesn't teach us to tear people down to… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“When you are joyful, when you say yes to life and have fun and project positivity all around you, you become a… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“You can find anyone that will tell you what you want to hear, but the only one worth valuing is the one… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“You will never overcome your self righteousness if you continue to believe that God prefers you over other people. The moment you… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Unless she scares the hell out of you, blows the cobwebs from your mind, scorches your heart with passion, melts your chains… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“The only healthy marriages that survive are the ones where two people became best friends and learned how to rescue one another,… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“The words, I love you, are empty without clarification. Women prefer to be told what they can expect. It is measurable like… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Tough love and brutal truth from strangers are far more valuable than Band-Aids and half-truths from invested friends, who don’t want to… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Don’t ever feel bad that someone couldn’t give you all of their heart. Be grateful that you can take the least complicated… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Every person with ADHD already knows that destination addiction is part of their disorder. However, if it doesn’t have a positive outlet,… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Don’t waste your time trying to explain yourself to people that are committed to misunderstanding you. Instead, commit your time to explaining who they… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“God has a way of picking a “nobody” and turning their world upside down, in order to create a “somebody” that will remove the… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Mental illness is not something you misunderstand in this era. Get educated because bias is no different than racism.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“It takes a female to have a baby, It takes a woman to raise a child, It takes a mother to raise them correctly,… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“God is going to send you someone that will rescue you. Then one day you will rescue them in return and together your story… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“You can be bit in the leg by a rattlesnake and seek help to heal your wound, or you can run after it and… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“It is not the self respect and pride that you take with you, but the heritage you leave behind to your children that matters.… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“The art of being wise is the art of knowing that solutions don’t come from individuals, but rather experiences.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“If you have feelings for someone, let them know. It doesn’t matter if they can be in your life or not. Maybe, it is… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“After every storm, there is a rainbow. If you have eyes, you will find it. If you have wisdom, you will create it. If… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Don’t ever feel bad that someone couldn’t give you all of their heart. Be grateful that you can take the least complicated part of… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“I don't know why anyone would be scared of a homeless person. The truly scary people are all the murder mystery writers. They spend… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
