Friendship Quote by Paul Ekman
““posture appropriate for a formal interview is not the posture assumed when talking with a friend. Posture seems well under control and successfully managed when someone is deceiving. I and others studying””
About This Quote
Source Book: Emotions Revealed by Paul Ekman, 2003
In formal settings we adopt a controlled posture, while deception often involves over‑controlled body language that can appear unnaturally steady.
In simple terms: Formal posture is controlled; deceptive posture is overly controlled.
Key Takeaway
Observe subtle body cues for authenticity.
Themes
communication
psychology
authenticity
Mood
analytical
observational
Type
advice
insightful
When to use this quote
- job interviews
- law enforcement interrogations
- social networking
- public speaking
Key Concepts
nonverbal behavior
deception detection
Questions to Reflect On
- How does cultural context affect posture cues?
- Can training improve detection of deceptive posture?
A Different Perspective
Deceptive individuals may deliberately vary posture, making cues unreliable.
