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Dad Quote by Nicole Kidman

“I'm not sure what the future holds but I do know that I'm going to be positive and not wake up feeling desperate. As my dad said 'Nic, it is what it is, it's not what it should have been, not what it could have been, it is what it is.'” quote by Nicole Kidman
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“I'm not sure what the future holds but I do know that I'm going to be positive and not wake up feeling desperate. As my dad said 'Nic, it is what it is, it's not what it should have been, not what it could have been, it is what it is.'”

Nicole Kidman

About This Quote

Source Interview: Vanity Fair, 2020

She chooses optimism and acceptance of reality, using her father's advice to avoid despair and stay positive.

In simple terms: She decides to stay positive despite uncertainty.

Key Takeaway

Adopt a hopeful mindset and accept what cannot be changed.

Themes

optimism acceptance resilience family wisdom

Mood

calm hopeful steady

Type

philosophical personal

When to use this quote

  • Morning affirmations
  • journaling
  • supportive conversations
  • stress‑reduction techniques

Key Concepts

Psychology mindfulness

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you balance acceptance with proactive problem‑solving?
  • What daily habits sustain your positivity?
A Different Perspective

Over‑reliance on acceptance may ignore actionable change.

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