Dad Quote by Nicole Kidman
“I'm not sure what the future holds but I do know that I'm going to be positive and not wake up feeling desperate. As my dad said 'Nic, it is what it is, it's not what it should have been, not what it could have been, it is what it is.'”
About This Quote
Source Interview: Vanity Fair, 2020
She chooses optimism and acceptance of reality, using her father's advice to avoid despair and stay positive.
In simple terms: She decides to stay positive despite uncertainty.
Adopt a hopeful mindset and accept what cannot be changed.
Themes
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When to use this quote
- Morning affirmations
- journaling
- supportive conversations
- stress‑reduction techniques
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you balance acceptance with proactive problem‑solving?
- What daily habits sustain your positivity?
Over‑reliance on acceptance may ignore actionable change.