Adage Quote by Mokokoma Mokhonoana
““We are loved way more by some of the people who have not contacted us in the last twelve or so months than we are loved by some of those who contact us every twelve or so days … or hours.””
About This Quote
The quote highlights that occasional, infrequent contact can feel more meaningful than frequent communication, suggesting that scarcity can increase perceived value of relationships.
In simple terms: Rare contact can feel more loving than frequent contact.
Key Takeaway
Appreciate the depth of occasional connections.
Themes
relationships
perception
communication
value
loneliness
Mood
reflective
thoughtful
nostalgic
Type
observational
philosophical
When to use this quote
- long-distance friendships
- online dating
- family reunions
- professional networking
Key Concepts
attachment theory
social scarcity
emotional valuation
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you value quality over quantity in relationships?
- How does scarcity affect your sense of being loved?
A Different Perspective
Frequent contact may also build trust and intimacy, which the quote overlooks.
