Appreciate Quote by Marshall B. Rosenberg
“There are the two main reasons we don't get our needs met. First, we don't know how to express our needs to begin with and second if we do, we forget to put a clear request after it, or we use vague words like appreciate, listen, recognize, know, be real, and stuff like that.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Nonviolent Communication by Marshall B. Rosenberg, 1999
People often fail to meet needs because they cannot clearly express or request them, leading to misunderstandings.
In simple terms: Clear expression and specific requests fulfill needs.
Communicate needs plainly and ask directly.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- workplace negotiations
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What needs are you hesitant to voice?
- How can you phrase requests more precisely?
Vague language can still be misunderstood despite good intentions.