Communication Quote by Marshall B. Rosenberg
“Needs are never conflicting. When we say that, we are only saying that at the moment we aren't seeing how both needs can be met. That leaves an opening. When you think in the way I'm suggesting, you'll often find a way to get most needs met simultaneously.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Nonviolent Communication by Marshall B. Rosenberg, 2003
When needs appear contradictory, it often means we haven't yet seen a solution that satisfies both; reframing can reveal mutually fulfilling options.
In simple terms: Conflicting needs can be reconciled with new perspectives.
Seek creative ways to meet multiple needs together.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- relationship counseling
- team management
- personal decision making
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What hidden needs could be addressed together?
- How can you reframe a conflict to reveal shared solutions?
May overlook practical constraints that limit simultaneous fulfillment.