Action Quote by Marshall B. Rosenberg
“NVC self-forgiveness: connecting with the need we were trying to meet when we took the action that we now regret.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Nonviolent Communication, 2003
Self‑forgiveness involves recognizing the unmet need behind a regretted action and reconnecting with it compassionately.
In simple terms: Forgive yourself by understanding the need you were trying to meet.
Key Takeaway
Identify and honor the underlying need.
Themes
self‑growth
empathy
psychology
Mood
introspective
healing
Type
psychological
transformational
When to use this quote
- personal crises
- conflict resolution
- habit change
Key Concepts
needs assessment
compassionate inquiry
Questions to Reflect On
- What need was you trying to when? regret?
- How can you meet that need constructively?
A Different Perspective
Self‑forgiveness can become avoidance if not paired with corrective action.
