Attempting Quote by Mallory Ortberg
“If your wife briefly corrects someone with "Actually, I'm bisexual" during conversation, it hardly sounds like attempting to remain an object of desire to me. If she went around saying, "Actually, I'm still very interested in men, particularly you, you massive dose of sexual charisma," you might have a case.”
About This Quote
The speaker mocks a partner’s brief correction about sexual orientation, implying it isn’t meant to provoke jealousy, but suggests a more overt, flirtatious comment would be a different matter.
In simple terms: A brief correction isn’t a jealousy tactic; overt flirtation would be.
Key Takeaway
Don’t read too much into casual statements.
Themes
relationships
communication
jealousy
Mood
ironic
critical
Type
observational
satirical
When to use this quote
- dating
- friendship
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
social dynamics
sexual orientation
boundary setting
Questions to Reflect On
- Is the partner’s comment defensive or playful?
- How do you handle subtle jealousy triggers?
A Different Perspective
If the partner’s comment is genuinely defensive, it may signal deeper insecurity.
