Anxiety Quote by Mallory Ortberg
“I think that it's a great idea to have honest conversations about children before getting married. I also think it's impossible to promise someone, "What I want right now will never change, and as long as I promise you I do - or don't - want a child - or a specific number of children - before we get married, we will never have to experience fear, anxiety, uncertainty, or the pain of not getting what we want, when we want it.”
About This Quote
Open, honest discussions about childbearing before marriage can reduce fear and uncertainty, though promises about future desires are unrealistic.
In simple terms: Talk openly about kids before marriage to lower fear.
Key Takeaway
Communicate early, accept uncertainty.
Themes
relationships
family planning
communication
Mood
thoughtful
cautious
Type
advisory
reflective
When to use this quote
- pre‑marital counseling
- family discussions
- future planning
Key Concepts
ethics
psychology
Questions to Reflect On
- How can couples navigate changing desires?
- What expectations are realistic in long‑term planning?
A Different Perspective
Promises about future desires are impossible to guarantee.
