Agony Quote by T. S. Eliot
“It has frequently been said that we never desire what we think absolutely inapprehensible: it is however true that some of our sharpest agonies are those in which the object of desire is regarded as both possible and imaginary.”
About This Quote
Source Poem: Unnamed, possibly early 20th‑century verse
Desire intensifies when the object seems both attainable and imagined, creating deep emotional conflict.
In simple terms: Wanting what seems possible yet unreal causes pain.
Key Takeaway
Recognize when fantasies fuel suffering.
Themes
desire
illusion
pain
psychology
Mood
reflective
melancholic
Type
philosophical
literary
When to use this quote
- relationships
- career ambitions
- creative projects
- personal goals
Key Concepts
cognitive dissonance
longing
fantasy
Questions to Reflect On
- What desires feel both possible and imagined?
- How do you balance hope with practicality?
A Different Perspective
Idealizing may prevent realistic action.
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