Emotion Quote by M. F. K. Fisher
“...I prefer not to have among my guests two people or more, of any sex, who are in the first wild tremours of love. It is better to invite them after their new passion has settled, has solidified into a quieter reciprocity of emotions. (It is also a waste of good food, to serve it to new lovers.)”
About This Quote
Source Book: How to Cook a Wolf, M. F. K. Fisher, 1942
New lovers are noisy and disruptive; waiting for their passion to settle makes gatherings smoother and food less wasted.
In simple terms: Invite couples after their romance calms.
Key Takeaway
Host when guests are settled.
Themes
hospitality
relationships
etiquette
Mood
lighthearted
pragmatic
Type
advice
social commentary
When to use this quote
- dinner parties
- family gatherings
- holiday meals
- bridal showers
Key Concepts
social dynamics
emotional regulation
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you prefer calm or lively guests?
- How does romance affect conversation?
A Different Perspective
Some may argue love adds excitement to events.
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