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Every night Quote by Eleanor Catton

“One could know a thousand women, Gascoigne thought; one could take a different girl every night for years and years—but sooner or later, the new lovers would do little more than call to mind the old, and one would be forced to wander, lost, in that reflective maze of endless comparison, forever…” quote by Eleanor Catton
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““One could know a thousand women, Gascoigne thought; one could take a different girl every night for years and years—but sooner or later, the new lovers would do little more than call to mind the old, and one would be forced to wander, lost, in that reflective maze of endless comparison, forever disappointed, forever turning back.””

Eleanor Catton

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Luminaries, 2013

The narrator reflects on endless romantic comparisons, leading to perpetual dissatisfaction.

In simple terms: Constantly comparing lovers leads to unhappiness.

Key Takeaway

Seek contentment with present relationships.

Themes

love comparison disappointment

Mood

melancholic reflective

Type

philosophical emotional

When to use this quote

  • dating life
  • relationship counseling
  • personal reflection

Key Concepts

psychology of desire nostalgia existential longing

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you value each partner uniquely?
  • What limits do you set on comparison?
A Different Perspective

Comparison can prevent genuine connection.

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