Abuse Quote by Lundy Bancroft
““Alcohol does not a change a person’s fundamental value system. People’s personalities when intoxicated, even though somewhat altered, still bear some relationship to who they are when sober. When you are drunk you may behave in ways that are silly or embarrassing; you might be overly familiar or tactlessly honest, or perhaps careless or forgetful. But do you knock over little old ladies for a laugh? Probably not. Do you sexually assault the clerk at the convenience store? Unlikely. People’s conduct while intoxicated continues to be governed by their core foundation of beliefs and attitudes, even though there is some loosening of the structure. Alcohol encourages people to let loose what they have simmering below the surface. ABUSERS MAKE CONSCIOUS CHOICES EVEN WHILE INTOXICATED””
About This Quote
Alcohol doesn’t alter core values; intoxication loosens behavior but core beliefs remain, though risky actions are unlikely.
In simple terms: Alcohol loosens behavior but core values stay.
Key Takeaway
Recognize intoxication’s limits on behavior.
Themes
addiction
ethics
behavioral control
Mood
cautious
analytical
Type
psychological
ethical
When to use this quote
- social gatherings
- personal safety
- legal implications
Key Concepts
psychology
social norms
Questions to Reflect On
- How does intoxication affect decision‑making?
- What safeguards protect against risky behavior?
A Different Perspective
Alcohol can impair judgment leading to harmful acts.
