Abused women Quote by Lundy Bancroft
““Abused women aren't "codependent." It is abusers, not their partners, who create abusive relationships.””
About This Quote
Source Book: No More Mr Nice Guy, Dr. Lundy Bancroft, 2003
Abusive dynamics stem from the abuser’s control, not the partner’s dependence.
In simple terms: Abusers create abuse, not victims.
Key Takeaway
Recognize and address the abuser’s behavior.
Themes
relationships
abuse
power dynamics
Mood
empathetic
serious
Type
educational
awareness
When to use this quote
- counseling sessions
- support groups
- legal advice
Key Concepts
codependency
control
responsibility
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you support a partner without blaming them?
- What signs indicate an abuser’s manipulation?
A Different Perspective
Abusers may also be victims of trauma, complicating accountability.
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