Marriage Quote by Lisa Kleypas
““You'll be my wife," he said inexorably. "You want to own me!" she accused, trying to crawl away from him. "Yes." He flung her down on the bed and flattened his weight on her. As he spoke, his hot breath fanned her mouth and chin. "Yes. I want other people to look at you and know you're mine. I want you to take my name and my money. I want you to live with me. I want to be inside you . . . part of your thoughts . . . your body . . . all of you. I want you to trust me. I want to give you whatever elusive, impossible, goddamned mysterious thing it is you need in order to be happy. Does that frighten you? Well, it frightens the hell out of me. Don't you think I'd stop feeling this way if I could? It's not as if you're the easiest woman in the world!!””
About This Quote
A speaker expresses obsessive possession, demanding total ownership and identity merger, while acknowledging personal fear and insecurity.
In simple terms: Obsession and fear of loss
Key Takeaway
Possessive love is destructive
Themes
possessiveness
identity
fear
control
insecurity
Mood
anxious
intense
dark
Type
dialogue
monologue
When to use this quote
- intimate relationships
- cohabitation
- marriage negotiations
- emotional manipulation
Key Concepts
power dynamics
attachment
self-worth
Practical Applications
- counseling for abusive dynamics
- literary analysis of toxic romance
Questions to Reflect On
- How does fear drive possessive behavior?
- What healthier forms of intimacy could replace control?
A Different Perspective
The speaker's desire for control may stem from deep insecurity rather than genuine love, suggesting a need for self-reflection rather than external ownership.
![“I don't like being away from home. That's one reason why I don't work as much as I used to [when I started my career], because so many things are on the road. I just don't want to be away from my husband, my dogs and my home. I don't sing that much any more because that also takes you on the road.” quote by Jane Powell](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/07c/jane-powell-36243_away_i-don-t-like-being-away-from-home-that-s_278.jpg)
