Ex wife Quote by Lionel Shriver
““And of course Brian was far more upset about separation from those two blond moppets than about leaving Louise. There shouldn't be any problem loving both, but for some reason certain men choose; like good mutual-fund managers minimizing risk while maximizing portfolio yield, they take everything they once invested in their wives and sink it into their children instead. What is it? Do they seem safer, because they need you? Because you can never become their ex-father, as I think I might become your ex-wife?””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Plot Against America, 2004
He critiques men who invest emotionally in children over spouses, questioning safety and identity.
In simple terms: Men may prioritize children over wives, raising identity concerns.
Key Takeaway
Reflect on balanced emotional investment.
Themes
family roles
gender expectations
emotional investment
Mood
thoughtful
analytical
Type
literary
philosophical
When to use this quote
- marriage counseling
- parenting decisions
- life planning
Key Concepts
marriage
parenthood
identity formation
Questions to Reflect On
- What motivates shifting emotional focus?
- How can couples maintain mutual support while parenting?
A Different Perspective
Overemphasis on one relationship can cause neglect elsewhere.
