Communication Quote by Leil Lowndes
““How to Make People Want to Start a Conversation with You Singles proficient at meeting potential sweethearts without the benefit of introduction (in the vernacular, making a "pickup"), have developed a deliciously devious technique that works equally well for social or corporate networking purposes. The technique requires no exceptional skill on your part, only the courage to sport a simple visual prop called a "Whatzit." What’s a Whatzit? A Whatzit is anything you wear or carry that is unusual—a unique pin, an interesting purse, a strange tie, or an amusing hat. A Whatzit is any object that draws people’s attention and inspires them to approach you and ask, "Uh, what’s that?" Your Whatzit can be as subtle or overt as your personality and the occasion permit.””
About This Quote
Source Book: How to Make People Want to Start a Conversation with You, 2005
Using an unusual personal item sparks curiosity, prompting others to initiate conversation.
In simple terms: A quirky prop invites interaction.
Key Takeaway
Carry something distinctive.
Themes
social skills
networking
confidence
Mood
playful
strategic
Type
practical
motivational
When to use this quote
- business networking
- dating events
- conferences
- social gatherings
Key Concepts
conversation starter
social psychology
Questions to Reflect On
- What prop feels authentic to you?
- How to transition from prop talk to meaningful dialogue?
A Different Perspective
Overreliance on props can feel gimmicky.
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