Greet Quote by Leil Lowndes
““Don’t flash an immediate smile when you greet someone, as though anyone who walked into your line of sight would be the beneficiary. Instead, look at the other person’s face for a second. Pause. Soak in their persona. Then let a big, warm, responsive smile flood over your face and overflow into your eyes. It will engulf the recipient like a warm wave. The split-second delay convinces people your flooding smile is genuine and only for them.””
About This Quote
Source Book: How to Make Friends with Anyone, 2005
A brief pause before smiling makes the smile appear sincere and personal.
In simple terms: Pause before smiling.
Key Takeaway
Smile after brief observation.
Themes
communication
empathy
social skills
first impressions
Mood
warm
thoughtful
Type
advice
instructional
When to use this quote
- networking events
- interviews
- customer service
- social gatherings
Key Concepts
authenticity
nonverbal cues
rapport building
Questions to Reflect On
- How does cultural context affect this?
- When is a quick smile appropriate?
A Different Perspective
Timing may be misread in fast‑paced cultures.
