Communication Quote by Laurence Steinberg
“Adolescents sometimes say..."My friends listen to me, but my parents only hear me talk." Often they are right. Familiarity breeds inattention.”
About This Quote
Source Interview: Child Development Expert, 2020
Teenagers feel heard by peers but ignored by parents, leading to frustration and disengagement.
In simple terms: Teens think friends listen, parents don’t.
Key Takeaway
Bridge the listening gap with parents.
Themes
communication
family dynamics
adolescence
listening
misunderstanding
Mood
concerned
hopeful
empathetic
Type
advice
reflective
educational
When to use this quote
- Family meetings
- school counseling
- parent‑teen activities
Key Concepts
developmental psychology
social identity
attention bias
Questions to Reflect On
- What can parents do to feel more present?
- How can teens express needs without blame?
A Different Perspective
Parents may lack time or awareness.
