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Communication Quote by John O'Donohue

“One of the tasks of true friendship is to listen compassionately and creatively to the hidden silences. Often secrets are not revealed in words, they lie concealed in the silence between the words or in the depth of what is unsayable between two people.” quote by John O'Donohue
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“One of the tasks of true friendship is to listen compassionately and creatively to the hidden silences. Often secrets are not revealed in words, they lie concealed in the silence between the words or in the depth of what is unsayable between two people.”

John O'Donohue

About This Quote

Source Essay: The Hidden Language of Friendship, 2003

True friendship requires listening beyond words, sensing unspoken feelings and silences.

In simple terms: Listen deeply to what is unsaid.

Key Takeaway

Practice compassionate listening.

Themes

friendship communication empathy

Mood

thoughtful intimate

Type

advice inspirational

When to use this quote

  • counseling
  • teamwork
  • intimate relationships

Key Concepts

nonverbal cues psychology

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you hear the unspoken?
  • What does silence reveal?
A Different Perspective

Silence can also hide harmful secrets.

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