Addiction Quote by John Bradshaw
““In Bradshaw On: The Family, society itself is seen as a sick family system built on the rules of the poisonous pedagogy. These rules deny emotions. This sets us up for the psychic numbing that leads to addiction. These rules of the poisionous pedagogy come from the time of kings. They are nondemocratic and based on a kind of master-slave inequality. They promote obsessive orderliness and obedience.””
About This Quote
Source Book: Healing the Shame that Binds You, John Bradshaw, 1988
Society enforces rigid, oppressive norms that suppress emotions, leading to numbness and addictive coping.
In simple terms: Harsh rules numb feelings and foster addiction.
Key Takeaway
Recognize and challenge oppressive norms.
Themes
psychology
societal critique
addiction
emotional health
Mood
reflective
critical
hopeful
Type
analysis
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- family therapy
- education reform
- personal healing
- community activism
Key Concepts
poisonous pedagogy
master‑slave dynamic
obedience
orderliness
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you experience emotional suppression?
- What steps can you take to foster healthier norms?
A Different Perspective
Such rules can also provide a sense of security for some, making change difficult.
