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Apologize Quote by Harriet Lerner

“Being able to make a sincere apology - one that says, "Yes, I get it; I screwed up. Your feelings make sense, and I'm taking this seriously" - is at the heart of being successful in leadership, parenting, and friendship, as well as our own integrity and self-worth. And the failure to apologize?…” quote by Harriet Lerner
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“Being able to make a sincere apology - one that says, "Yes, I get it; I screwed up. Your feelings make sense, and I'm taking this seriously" - is at the heart of being successful in leadership, parenting, and friendship, as well as our own integrity and self-worth. And the failure to apologize? Even a good relationship will suffer quietly - because we really feel it when someone won't take responsibility for what they said, or didn't say.”

Harriet Lerner

About This Quote

Sincere apologies restore relationships and self‑respect, while avoiding responsibility erodes trust and wellbeing.

In simple terms: Apologizing honestly heals; not apologizing harms.

Key Takeaway

Apologize sincerely to maintain trust.

Themes

leadership relationships integrity

Mood

empathetic inspiring

Type

advice reflective

When to use this quote

  • workplace
  • family
  • friendships

Key Concepts

emotional intelligence conflict resolution self‑worth

Questions to Reflect On

  • What makes an apology feel genuine?
  • How can you ensure apologies lead to action?
A Different Perspective

Apologies may be seen as weakness if not followed by change.

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