Feels Quote by Harriet Lerner
“If we only listened with the same passion that we feel about being heard.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Dance of Anger, Harriet Lerner, 1985
Listening with the same intensity we desire to be heard creates reciprocal empathy
In simple terms: Listening as passionately as we want to be heard fosters understanding
Key Takeaway
Practice active, empathetic listening
Themes
communication
empathy
relationships
Mood
reflective
thoughtful
Type
self-help
psychology
When to use this quote
- therapy sessions
- team meetings
- conflict resolution
- personal relationships
Key Concepts
psychology
interpersonal dynamics
emotional intelligence
Questions to Reflect On
- Do we truly hear when we listen?
- How does listening shape power dynamics?
A Different Perspective
Listening alone may not change entrenched attitudes
