Addict Quote by Gabor Maté
““Another powerful dynamic perpetuates addiction despite the abundance of disastrous consequences: the addict sees no other possible existence for himself. His outlook on the future is restricted by his entrenched self-image as addict. No matter how much he may acknowledge the costs of his addiction, he fears a loss of self if it were absent from his life. In his own mind, he would cease to exist as he knows himself.””
About This Quote
Source Book: In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts, Gabor Maté, 2008
Addiction persists because the addict’s identity is tied to the habit, making the prospect of change feel like loss of self.
In simple terms: Addicts see themselves only as addicts, fearing they would cease to exist without it.
Key Takeaway
Recognize identity beyond addiction.
Themes
addiction
identity
self-perception
Mood
hopeful
reflective
Type
motivational
psychological
When to use this quote
- therapy
- support groups
- personal reflection
- recovery planning
Key Concepts
psychology
behavioral change
self-concept
Questions to Reflect On
- How can one rebuild identity separate from addiction?
- What supports help maintain self‑esteem during recovery?
A Different Perspective
Change can be terrifying when it threatens core self‑image.
