Love Quote by Durga Chew-Bose
““A distinguishing quality of the women I love, meaning, none of us are bothered by how infrequently we see one another. We have an arrangement that was never formally arranged. A consideration for turning down invitations. We are happy for the person who is indulging in her space, and how she might merely be spending the weekend unescorted by anything except her work, which could also mean: she is in no rush to complete much. She is tinkering. She is gathering all the materials necessary for repotting a plant but not doing it. She is turning off the lights and climbing into her head because that’s usually the move.””
About This Quote
Source Interview: Podcast “The Longest Shortest Time”, 2015
She values independent, unstructured time with friends, appreciating personal space and low‑pressure connection.
In simple terms: Friends can be close without constant contact.
Key Takeaway
Embrace flexible, low‑maintenance relationships.
Themes
friendship
independence
space
non‑conformity
Mood
relaxed
thoughtful
Type
conversational
reflective
When to use this quote
- long‑distance friendships
- creative collaborations
- solo projects
- casual meet‑ups
Key Concepts
boundaries
intentionality
autonomy
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you maintain closeness without frequent meetings?
- What boundaries protect your personal space?
A Different Perspective
May lack depth if not balanced with intimacy.
