Heart Quote by Calvin Trillin
““For Alice, of course, the measure of how you held up in the face of a life-threatening illness was not how much you changed but how much you stayed the same, in control of your own identity.””
About This Quote
Source Essay: “The Measure of a Life” in The New Yorker, 2015
True strength during illness is maintaining identity and control, not changing oneself.
In simple terms: Stay true to yourself when ill.
Preserve identity, stay in control.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- hospital stay
- chronic disease
- personal crisis
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What parts of identity are essential?
- How can control be maintained?
Changing may be necessary for health.