Butler Quote by Calvin Trillin
“As far as I'm concerned, 'whom' is a word that was invented to make everyone sound like a butler.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: Language and Social Etiquette, published in The New Yorker, 1970s
The word 'whom' is seen as pretentious, highlighting how language can be used to appear overly formal.
In simple terms: 'Whom' feels overly formal.
Key Takeaway
Use language that feels natural.
Themes
language
elitism
communication
Mood
lighthearted
analytical
Type
humorous
observational
When to use this quote
- formal writing
- casual conversation
- education
- media critique
Key Concepts
prescriptive grammar
social signaling
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you avoid 'whom' intentionally?
- When is formal language appropriate?
A Different Perspective
Some contexts still require proper usage.
