Enough Quote by Brené Brown
“When I look at narcissism through the vulnerability lens, I see the shame-based fear of being ordinary. I see the fear of never feeling extraordinary enough to be noticed, to be lovable, to belong, or to cultivate a sense of purpose.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Daring Greatly, Brené Brown, 2012
Viewing narcissism via vulnerability reveals it stems from shame and fear of being ordinary, seeking extraordinary validation, love, belonging, and purpose.
In simple terms: Narcissism hides shame and fear of being ordinary.
Recognize and address underlying shame.
Themes
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When to use this quote
- therapy sessions
- personal reflection
- team building
- leadership coaching
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How does shame drive your need for validation?
- What steps can you take to feel worthy without extraordinary feats?
May overlook structural factors influencing self‑worth.