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“When I look at narcissism through the vulnerability lens, I see the shame-based fear of being ordinary. I see the fear of never feeling extraordinary enough to be noticed, to be lovable, to belong, or to cultivate a sense of purpose.” quote by Brené Brown
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“When I look at narcissism through the vulnerability lens, I see the shame-based fear of being ordinary. I see the fear of never feeling extraordinary enough to be noticed, to be lovable, to belong, or to cultivate a sense of purpose.”

Brené Brown

About This Quote

Source Book: Daring Greatly, Brené Brown, 2012

Viewing narcissism via vulnerability reveals it stems from shame and fear of being ordinary, seeking extraordinary validation, love, belonging, and purpose.

In simple terms: Narcissism hides shame and fear of being ordinary.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and address underlying shame.

Themes

vulnerability shame identity belonging purpose

Mood

reflective empathetic

Type

insightful motivational

When to use this quote

  • therapy sessions
  • personal reflection
  • team building
  • leadership coaching

Key Concepts

psychology self‑esteem social comparison

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does shame drive your need for validation?
  • What steps can you take to feel worthy without extraordinary feats?
A Different Perspective

May overlook structural factors influencing self‑worth.

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