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“Until we teach our children that they need to be concerned with how they look and with what other people think, they dance.” quote by Brené Brown
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““Until we teach our children that they need to be concerned with how they look and with what other people think, they dance.””

Brené Brown

About This Quote

Source Book: Dare to Lead, 2018

Teaching children to care about appearance leads to performance driven by external validation rather than authenticity.

In simple terms: Focus on inner values, not looks.

Key Takeaway

Encourage authentic self-expression.

Themes

self-esteem authenticity social pressure parenting

Mood

empathetic thoughtful

Type

psychological inspirational

When to use this quote

  • family life
  • school environments
  • youth programs

Key Concepts

inner confidence personal growth social media influence

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can parents foster intrinsic confidence?
  • What alternatives to appearance-focused feedback exist?
A Different Perspective

External focus can undermine self-worth.

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