Affection Quote by Brené Brown
“Love is not something we give or get; it is something that we nurture and grow, a connection that can only be cultivated between two people when it exists within each one of them- we can only love others as much as we love ourselves. Shame, blame, disrespect, betrayal, and the withholding of affection damage the roots from which love grows. Love can only survive these injuries if they are acknowledged, healed, and rare.”
About This Quote
Source Book: “The Gifts of Imperfection”, 2010
Love thrives when self‑love is present; external love grows from mutual respect, and wounds must be healed for love to endure.
In simple terms: Love needs self‑love and healing.
Key Takeaway
Cultivate self‑love and heal wounds.
Themes
self‑love
relationships
healing
Mood
empathetic
hopeful
Type
philosophical
inspirational
When to use this quote
- romantic relationships
- friendships
- family dynamics
Key Concepts
vulnerability
attachment theory
Questions to Reflect On
- What wounds need healing for love to flourish?
- How does self‑love affect your relationships?
A Different Perspective
Ignoring personal wounds can undermine relationships.
