Being Quote by Brene Brown
“I hesitate to use a pathologizing label, but underneath the so-called narcissistic personality is definitely shame and the paralyzing fear of being ordinary.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Daring Greatly by Brené Brown, 2012
Shame underlies narcissistic traits, driving fear of being ordinary and paralyzing self‑esteem.
In simple terms: Narcissism hides shame and fear of normalcy.
Recognize and address shame behind narcissistic behavior.
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When to use this quote
- therapy sessions
- leadership coaching
- personal reflection
- relationship counseling
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How does shame manifest in your behavior?
- What steps can reduce fear of being ordinary?
Narcissistic traits may also stem from other sources like trauma.