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“I hesitate to use a pathologizing label, but underneath the so-called narcissistic personality is definitely shame and the paralyzing fear of being ordinary.” quote by Brene Brown
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“I hesitate to use a pathologizing label, but underneath the so-called narcissistic personality is definitely shame and the paralyzing fear of being ordinary.”

Brene Brown

About This Quote

Source Book: Daring Greatly by Brené Brown, 2012

Shame underlies narcissistic traits, driving fear of being ordinary and paralyzing self‑esteem.

In simple terms: Narcissism hides shame and fear of normalcy.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and address shame behind narcissistic behavior.

Themes

psychology self‑esteem vulnerability

Mood

reflective empathetic

Type

insightful therapeutic

When to use this quote

  • therapy sessions
  • leadership coaching
  • personal reflection
  • relationship counseling

Key Concepts

Narcissism shame fear of ordinariness

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does shame manifest in your behavior?
  • What steps can reduce fear of being ordinary?
A Different Perspective

Narcissistic traits may also stem from other sources like trauma.

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