Children Quote by Bessel A. van der Kolk
““Like so many survivors of childhood abuse, Marilyn exemplified the power of the life force, the will to live and to own one's life, the energy that counteracts the annihilation of trauma. I gradually came to realize that the only thing that makes it possible to do the work of healing trauma is awe at the dedication to survival that enabled my patients to endure their abuse and then to endure the dark nights of the soul that inevitably occur on the road to recovery.””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Body Keeps the Score, Bessel A. van der Kolk, 2014
Healing trauma relies on recognizing the survivor’s innate drive to live and the awe inspired by their perseverance.
In simple terms: Survivors’ will to live fuels healing.
Key Takeaway
Cultivate awe for resilience.
Themes
trauma
healing
resilience
survival
psychology
Mood
hopeful
reflective
Type
therapeutic
inspirational
When to use this quote
- therapy sessions
- support groups
- personal reflection
- educational workshops
Key Concepts
post‑traumatic growth
survivor agency
mind‑body connection
Questions to Reflect On
- How can clinicians foster awe without romanticizing trauma?
- What structures support sustained healing?
A Different Perspective
Awe alone may not address systemic barriers to recovery.
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