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“Not that I was incapable of friendship. 'Don't be shy', the teachers coaxed. I was not shy, only extremely choosy. And Denise shone like a diamond. If you had to ask me to define paradise, I would have said a desert island which Denise could visit, on a boat.” quote by Anneli Rufus
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“Not that I was incapable of friendship. 'Don't be shy', the teachers coaxed. I was not shy, only extremely choosy. And Denise shone like a diamond. If you had to ask me to define paradise, I would have said a desert island which Denise could visit, on a boat.”

Anneli Rufus

About This Quote

Source Essay: The Art of Friendship, 2002

I was selective, not shy; Denise was a radiant presence; paradise for me is a desert island she could reach by boat.

In simple terms: I chose friends carefully; Denise shone; my ideal place is a reachable island.

Key Takeaway

Value selective, meaningful connections.

Themes

friendship selectivity idealism

Mood

reflective nostalgic

Type

personal literary

When to use this quote

  • personal narratives
  • travel dreams

Key Concepts

Personal relationships idealized settings

Questions to Reflect On

  • What qualities define your ideal friend?
  • How do you balance selectivity with openness?
A Different Perspective

Selective friendship may limit social growth.

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