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Believe Quote by Anneli Rufus

“We believe that whatever feels at first like joy is not. Or is, but will not last. Or should not last. We feel so sure of this that we will undermine our own inklings of joy, blunting the pain we think awaits.” quote by Anneli Rufus
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“We believe that whatever feels at first like joy is not. Or is, but will not last. Or should not last. We feel so sure of this that we will undermine our own inklings of joy, blunting the pain we think awaits.”

Anneli Rufus

About This Quote

The quote warns that initial joy can be fleeting, and that fear of loss may cause us to suppress joy, leading to unnecessary pain.

In simple terms: Joy is often temporary and can be suppressed by fear.

Key Takeaway

Accept joy without over‑protecting it.

Themes

joy fear impermanence

Mood

cautious thoughtful

Type

philosophical psychological

When to use this quote

  • relationship counseling
  • mental health therapy
  • personal growth
  • creative pursuits

Key Concepts

psychology mindfulness

Questions to Reflect On

  • What prevents you from fully feeling joy?
  • How can you hold joy without fear?
A Different Perspective

Joy may be deeper than surface feelings.

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