Marriage Quote by Sylvie Simmons
““She also asked him his views on marrige and monogamy given the imminent arrival of his second child with Suzanne. "I think marrying is for very very high minded people" he said. "It is a discipline of extreme severity. To really turn your back on all the other possibilities and all the other experiences of love,of passion,of ecstasy,and to determine to find it within one embrace is a high and righteous notion. Marriage today is the monastery,the monastery today is freedom. " he told Marion he had arrived "at a more realistic vision" of himself. There was no "high purpose" in his activities. "I'm just going" he said "so I don't have to stay still””
About This Quote
Source Interview: Discussing marriage and personal philosophy, 2010
The speaker views marriage as a lofty, restrictive commitment, contrasting it with freedom and personal realism.
In simple terms: Marriage is seen as a high-minded, limiting choice.
Key Takeaway
Question societal expectations about marriage.
Themes
marriage
freedom
personal growth
Mood
contemplative
critical
Type
philosophical
interview
When to use this quote
- relationships
- family planning
- career decisions
Key Concepts
existentialism
social norms
Questions to Reflect On
- Is marriage a personal choice or societal pressure?
- How does freedom coexist with commitment?
A Different Perspective
Idealizing marriage may ignore practical complexities.
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