Commitment Quote by Mitch Albom
““I think people expect too much from marriage today" he said. "They expect perfection. Every moment should be a bliss. That´s TV or movies. But that is not the human experience. Like Sarah says, twenty good minutes here, forty good minutes there, it adds up to something beautiful. The trick is when things aren´t so great, you don´t junk the whole thing. It´s okay to have an argument. It´s okay that the other one nudges you a little, bothers you a little. It´s part of being close to someone. But the joy you get from the sam closeness - when you watch your children, whan you wake up and smile at each other - that, as our tradition teaches us, is a blessing. People forget that. Why do they forget it? Because the word "commitment" has lost its meaning. I´m old enough to remember when it used to be positive. A committed person was someone to be admired. He was loyal and steady. Now a commitment is something you avoid. You don´t want to tie yourself down””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Book of Joy, Mitch Albom, 2019
Marriage expectations are unrealistic; true value lies in imperfect, everyday moments and commitment.
In simple terms: Marriage isn’t perfect; cherish everyday moments and commitment.
Value imperfect moments and stay committed.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- family life
- marital counseling
- personal reflection
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can couples celebrate imperfection?
- What does commitment truly mean today?
Perfection is unattainable and can damage relationships.