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Commitment Quote by Mitch Albom

“I think people expect too much from marriage today" he said. "They expect perfection. Every moment should be a bliss. That´s TV or movies. But that is not the human experience. Like Sarah says, twenty good minutes here, forty good minutes there, it adds up to something beautiful. The trick is when…” quote by Mitch Albom
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““I think people expect too much from marriage today" he said. "They expect perfection. Every moment should be a bliss. That´s TV or movies. But that is not the human experience. Like Sarah says, twenty good minutes here, forty good minutes there, it adds up to something beautiful. The trick is when things aren´t so great, you don´t junk the whole thing. It´s okay to have an argument. It´s okay that the other one nudges you a little, bothers you a little. It´s part of being close to someone. But the joy you get from the sam closeness - when you watch your children, whan you wake up and smile at each other - that, as our tradition teaches us, is a blessing. People forget that. Why do they forget it? Because the word "commitment" has lost its meaning. I´m old enough to remember when it used to be positive. A committed person was someone to be admired. He was loyal and steady. Now a commitment is something you avoid. You don´t want to tie yourself down””

Mitch Albom

About This Quote

Source Book: The Book of Joy, Mitch Albom, 2019

Marriage expectations are unrealistic; true value lies in imperfect, everyday moments and commitment.

In simple terms: Marriage isn’t perfect; cherish everyday moments and commitment.

Key Takeaway

Value imperfect moments and stay committed.

Themes

marriage expectations commitment realism relationships

Mood

thoughtful hopeful

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • family life
  • marital counseling
  • personal reflection

Key Concepts

idealism vs reality relationship dynamics cultural narratives

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can couples celebrate imperfection?
  • What does commitment truly mean today?
A Different Perspective

Perfection is unattainable and can damage relationships.

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