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“When I was in therapy about two years ago, one day I noticed that I hadn't had any children. And I like children at a distance. I wondered if I'd like them up close. I wondered why I didn't have any. I wondered if it was a mistake, or if I'd done it on purpose, or what. And I noticed my therapist…” quote by Spalding Gray
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“When I was in therapy about two years ago, one day I noticed that I hadn't had any children. And I like children at a distance. I wondered if I'd like them up close. I wondered why I didn't have any. I wondered if it was a mistake, or if I'd done it on purpose, or what. And I noticed my therapist didn't have any children either. He had pictures of his cats on the wall. Framed.”

Spalding Gray

About This Quote

Source Interview: Theatrical Monologue, 1990s, spoken word performance

The speaker reflects on personal life choices, questioning parenthood and noticing similar traits in the therapist, highlighting introspection about societal expectations.

In simple terms: Questioning childlessness and therapist's life choices.

Key Takeaway

Explore personal motivations and societal pressures.

Themes

identity family therapy self‑reflection

Mood

contemplative curious

Type

reflective introspective

When to use this quote

  • personal therapy sessions
  • career planning
  • relationship counseling

Key Concepts

existential questioning social norms

Questions to Reflect On

  • What assumptions do you hold about parenthood?
  • How do therapist dynamics influence self‑perception?
A Different Perspective

Therapist's own life may bias perspective.

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