Beer Quote by Sloane Crosley
“Ladies. Large masses of girls are often prone to this salutation. I hate being mollified with this unsolicited "ladies" business. I know we're all women. I am conscious of my breasts. Do I have to be conscious of yours as well? Do men do this? Do they go, "Men: Meet for ribs in the shed after the game. Keg beer, raw eggs, and death metal only." I would imagine not.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: Gendered Greetings, 2015
The speaker critiques the generic “ladies” address, questioning its necessity and gendered assumptions in social language.
In simple terms: “Ladies” is an unnecessary, gendered greeting.
Avoid blanket greetings; address individuals directly.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- workplace meetings
- social gatherings
- online forums
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you prefer to be addressed?
- What alternatives can replace gendered salutations?
Changing language may not shift deeper biases.